Does the WAS/ WAW go on to find true happiness in their next relationship, or are there future relationships fraught with the same dysfunction? Matter fact that I want to commit to anything. Then having been served to bogus protection orders for trying to tell her you to want to file for custody since the kids are obviously being treated to PAS parent alienation syndrome... Yeah tell me about it, brother, I am living it and if I could go back in time and kick my ass for meeting her, I would! The saddest part is that ALL women since time began hold the keys.
Remember, guys aren't houses, you can't fix one up in 3 months and live happily ever after. He will not attend church with me or enter into any community activities, when I worked he would not attend couples or family activities.
but when you get together and bash the kid's father, or boys/men in general you whittle away at any respect the kid has for you later in life.and why a wife should have put up with bullshit,.. it is not love it is abuse and life to short for that crap.Did it ever occur to you, Brandon, that husbands are hearing the message loud and clear, they just don't like being constantly told what sorry MFs they are, especially at the end of a hard day at work when they realize life has passed them by and all they have to show for it is a shrew for a wife, spoiled brats for children, and a dark, damp corner in the basement of the home they bought and paid for that they can call their own space.I feel your pain. They are suspicious. The beginning of my end was when I realized that I didn't really love my wife, I stayed because I felt obligated to. A bit by bit, piece by piece, eventually she came to terms with the fact that the partner does not care about what annoys her. But, once you are ok with those consequences and ok with idea of marriage end, following through is just about following a plan.
Women don't leave if they are not running to someone else.... stop your complaining about generalizations... i said USUALLY>Brandon, she told you she was unhappy, how is that hard to understand. Others, however, may wonder why he couldn’t have put in the effort all along. He killed her because she was having an affair. Don't invalidate all the women who walked away from bullying, abusive husbands.
If you are worried about losing the material, think about it. TRUTH ..You put things in such great perspective! Honest men who follow that "be yourself and be nice to girls" rom-com bullshit because that's their personality all get written off or dismissed.Being treated like less than an equal, daily emotional and psychological abuse, with some physical abuse thrown in from time to time seems more like it. Was I perfect? I have recently decided to get out of this loveless marriage and move on with my life working on making myself happy. There are so many men that drop decent women for tramps. He may be comfortable with their established independent routines. If the wife is getting the emotional satisfaction she needs from the marriage, quite often the relationship flourishes. After all this, she still rejects me and says she no longer loves me. anyway I feel your pain and I'am happy for you that you have lived thurgh all of that and became a better man for it I hope your wife can see what you have done to better yourself and find it in her heart to try and make the family work god bless her for dealing with all the bullshit for all them years and if she is reading this I truly feel your ex husband has taken the right steps to becoming a better husband and father but most of all a better man PLEASE find it in your heart to try and put this family right? My wife's parents split when she was 2 - her dad ran off with a woman 20 years his junior (and a student of his) to "follow his dreams" in California. That is just wish for revenge talking.
At that point, the only way to not be manipulative and not be accused is to follow up.Within 30 days, I went from being excited about being married for two years to reviewing a divorce settlement.All of this is to say that the examples we set for our children are so important. Raising our kids "right" - with hopefully a decent moral compass, is so important, but it becomes difficult when one parent is so unscrupulous.You are so quick to lump all men in the same category and blame them for the problems in the marriage, exactly what you claim we men do. With time I will probably have to do the same. I have been married over 20 years. I have asked many times for her to stop.